22 October 08
TRUST
Yesterday, my friend messaged me while he was attending an external course. He said that the administrator came to check their attendance every now and then. Why? To make sure that they did not sign the attendance and leave half-way through the class. The “punishment” was to restart their course. -_-
I have to clarify, my friend is in the senior management. So are the rest of the participants.
“They treat you like you’re in a kindy.:)” I replied.
And I must say, they are not the only one doing that. It happens across different sectors, age groups and professionals.
So that’s all come down to one problem – Lack of trust. It seems that if there isn’t any “system” governing EVERY PROCESS, they think that some “idiots” along the line are just not “mature, responsible and accountable” enough to make their decisions on their own. OH NO! These people are going to screw us up! -_-
A simple “attendance checking” system like this actually reminded me of every other “checking systems” that we are being put on, to make sure that WE DON’T SCREW UP!
If the people are so used to “do because we’re asked to do”, then what is going to happen “inside” us?
I wonder if people still take the initiative to be accountable and responsible without being asked to be.
Take the “attendance system” as an example, if an adult does not take learning as his own responsibility, what’s the point for having those systems to tie him down. In another words, “die die” must have him sitting there, who cares if he spaces out or he learns nothing.
If these systems are to “discipline” people…OH BOY. Imagine, a company director being put under a monitoring system so that HE WILL NOT SKIP A CLASS. How classy.
I shared with my students in class one day, that we could hardly find rubbish bin on the street in Japan. And yet, the country is “squeaky clean”. One student asked:”Where do they throw the rubbish then?”
I said:“Handbag…and bring the rubbish home to throw.”
Is there a sign on the street that says “Bring your rubbish back“? NO.
A sign that says “Stand on the left of escalator“? NO.
Are they asked to do all these? NO.
So what has gone wrong?
Posted under Thoughts & musings | [10] Comments







October 22nd, 2008 at 10:59 pm
Isn’t that false imprisonment(i.e. kidnapping)?
October 23rd, 2008 at 12:06 pm
I think there are two key words in this issue : “Responsibility and Accountability”, everybody should practice this two important principle in whatever they do.
If we know to responsible on what we do and later on accountable for it then you should be given the freedom to make a decision ( e.g stay put for the course, attend a class, driving according to traffic regulation, line up etc.)
If we need a system to make sure we adhere to the above 2 principle then we are really screw up.
People whose cannot take up the two principle as the way of life can’t go far…..!!!
LY.Tai
October 23rd, 2008 at 1:57 pm
Tai! WELL SAID!!
October 23rd, 2008 at 7:39 pm
They were nice until black sheeps came along and stained the reputation of the goody-two-shoes student. Then out comes the unreasonable regulations.
October 24th, 2008 at 2:37 am
well, in Japan there aren’t those kinda signs and yet people do those stuff.
however here in SG is a TOTAL different case. :/ signs everywhere… but……………. heheh.
October 24th, 2008 at 8:01 am
Different culture mah… but I’m sure there are some people who go against their culture.
October 24th, 2008 at 11:20 am
I miss Japan…
October 24th, 2008 at 1:15 pm
im going back to japan!! (:
October 25th, 2008 at 11:12 pm
I think Singapore has gone too pampered. There’s reminders for courtesy everywhere, signs to request commuters to “keep left on the escalator” or to “let alighting passengers pass first”, to not litter indiscriminately.
Then there’s Singaporeans who go for a Mad Rush for Plastic Bags (cause it’s Bring Your Bag Day the next day), or those who are rude on the road, or those who leave stains and litter all over the tables of fast food restaurants, so on so forth.
I don’t think it’s just a matter of trust, Ms Cherry. I think it’s also a matter of how truly mature and responsible a person is, and how they behave when they’re with other people or in public.
I am just a young adult so perhaps I have no right to criticize the general misdo-ers. However I roll my eyes (and still do) at those who still try to rush in to MRT carriages with people trying to exit from them.
October 26th, 2008 at 12:02 am
well said!