1 March 07
sister’s sister

Although we enjoyed each other’s company since young, that didn’t stop us from fighting. We always fought when we were young. Sometimes when we fought, we hated each other and wished we did not have each other. We said hurtful things to each other such as “I hate you” and made each other cried.
My mom told me how fussy I was when I was a little. When we sat at the back of the car, I set a boundary between our seats and did not want my sister to get close to me. She, the mischievous one as always, liked to annoy by touching my skirt or took the advantage to lean against me when the car took a sharp turn. I screamed my head off when she touched me.
Look at my face!

We used to compare whatever that was given to us. Whatever my mom bought, she has to buy 2. And the 2 items had to be 100% identical. If it was different in colour, we would spend hours to compare and always thought the other party had a better one. The issue didn’t stop after exchanging. Sometimes one of us would think we were cheated by another party. It was an endless crazy cycle!
And guess what, we also fell in love with the same guy when I was 17. *grin*
We stopped fighting when I studied abroad. After a few months abroad, my attitude changed. When she visited me in Perth, I hugged her when we took pictures. She was so shocked! She told my mom that she had a different sister.
I am glad that we are now so close and are constantly be supportive to each other. I miss her most of the time. Come and think of it, we have been apart for almost 7 years. It is so difficult now to hang out with her for long. The longest time we hung out was 5 days. We talked about everything. We slept in the same room and chatted till we fell asleep.
We have so many common interests. We both are crazy about dancing, all kinds of dances! We used to choreograph dances together and have won several awards. We were also in the synchronised swimming team where everyone called us Cherry Blossom because I am the ‘Cherry’ and she has to be the ‘Blossom’.
She is still choreographing dances for major events. According to her, I am her biggest fan! *grin*

Whenever I receive call from her at night, I would be very worried. May be it is a sister’s thing. My heart would pound so hard as if I knew something has happened her. True enough, she always ends up weeping on the phone.
I am not sure how many years we are going to be apart. We both have our own life and home now. If I am given a chance to turn back time, I wish we were this close since young. She is the greatest gift and companion from God.
We love to act!

Last but not least, the 2 narcissists. Recently, we have found a new common interest: Taking pictures. I bought her a new camera for her birthday and we are always on snapping mood.
There you go.. the narcissists.

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